6 years ago... get over it

Six years ago I started seeing my current husband. He was separated from his 1st wife waiting for the divorce to be final. I didn't see that as a big deal since she was already with someone else and she was the one who left him. I met him on the square in the small podunk town we lived in and then didn't talk to him again for a whole month. We went out one more time and his soon-to-be ex wife showed up at my house as he was dropping me off. She was acting crazy and screaming at his while their two small children sat in the back seat of her car crying for her to stop. Again I didn't see him for another whole month. We went out on our 3rd date with nothing crazy happening and so we decided to hang out again the next night. His ex was supposed to have the kids that night but changed her mind so he stopped by the house I was babysitting at with his little girls. They played with the child I was watching (a mutual friends kid) and then fell asleep watching a movie. They mightve been asleep for 20 min when their mom showed up with a group of 6 guys and broke into the house. Her guy friends grabbed the girls & carried them out to the truck while his ex wife proceeded to beat the crap out of him, which apparently wasn't the first time. She didn't leave until the police showed up and they pressed charges on her but didn't take her to jail. Later that night she showed up at his house banging on the windows and doors like a wild animal. She was screaming tht she wouldn't stop until he let her in. To be cont...